Nkechi Nkiru Ngonadi, founder of NHN Couture, a born again Christian who has reached out to young generations with her powerful teachings also known for her words of wisdom and inspiration, writes about comparison in relationships especially on the part of women.
"There’s nothing that drives a man more than knowing you believe in him, respect him, and have high expectations for him. If your husband hears that you wish he were more like someone else, his embarrassment will very likely cause him to pull away from you and revert inside himself. He could either feel like he has something to prove, or he may give up altogether. Different men would handle hearing themselves compared to other men differently, but like I said earlier, it would be an extremely low blow that would be hard to get back up from.
WISDOM GIRLS, WISDOM.
Most time we girls are responsible for the withdrawer syndrome in notice in our marriages.
STOP THE COMPARISON!.
MOST OF THE COUPLES HAPPY EVER AFTER PICTURES OR VIDEOS ON SOCIAL MEDIA ARE MERE FILM TRICKS.
BELIEVE ME, MOST OF THESE COUPLES SLEEP ON DIFFERENT BEDS AND ROOM EVERY NIGHT.
MOST OF THESE LADIES CRY THEMSELVES TO SLEEP EVERY NIGHT.
MOST OF THESE COUPLES HAVEN'T SPOKEN TO EACH OTHER IN MONTHS.
MOST OF THESE LADIES HAVE INSECURITY ISSUES.
SO NEVER COMPARE SOMEONE SOCIAL MEDIA MAKE BELIEVE TO REAL LIFE.
LIFE IS MAJORITY WHAT YOU MAKE OUT OF IT.
IF YOU NEED YOUR GRASS TO BE ENVIED?
WORK AT TAKING CARE OF IT AND STOP COMPARING YINKA'S MAKE BELEIVE ARTIFICIAL LANE TO REALITY.
PEACE.
GOOD MORNING FRIENDS."